Brian е прав - ще се мъча да спестя "мъдростите" в другите теми и тука ще споделям неща, дето са ме mindblow-нали. Сега чета "Beyond Mars and Venus". Тея цитати ми направиха впечатление:
1. Ninety percent more men than women end up in jail, and more men than women die in accidents. Being more testosterone driven, men take more risks than women. Men’s higher testosterone levels give them faster reaction times. While this means they can easily act without first thinking or feeling, it also makes them more likely to act without considering the potential consequences.
2. Four times more men than women complete suicide, while almost twice as many women than men attempt suicide. Women are much more likely to talk about feelings of suicide while men tend to follow through and do it. Being more estrogen driven, women want to talk when under stress more than men do; men, being more testosterone driven, tend to take immediate action when life is too painful. Instead of seeking therapy to end stress, men end their lives. Ninety percent of people who seek out counseling are women.
3. More women file for divorce, while more men are addicted to online porn. Being more estrogen driven, women are more relational; their new expectations from personal relationships are leading to greater disappointment, which then leads to divorce. Being more testosterone driven, men are more vulnerable to sexual addiction to mask the pain of their unmet new needs for increased physical intimacy and lasting passion.
4. More men are alcoholics and drug addicts, while more women take antidepressants and sleeping pills. Being more independent, more men seek to medicate their pain on their own by drinking too much or taking addictive drugs, while more women seek the help of doctors and the drugs they prescribe to suppress or escape their pain.
5. Nearly half as many men as women are graduating from high school and college, and more female college graduates are finding they can’t find a suitable male partner or do not want a partner at all. Because men and women are fundamentally different, when children of divorce do not have access to their fathers, girls strive to be overly independent because they have no successful experience depending on a man, while boys lose the motivation to work hard to provide for a family because they have no role model of a man succeeding in making his mother happy. Being testosterone driven, men are primarily motivated by the confidence that they can make a difference. Without having seen a confident father making his mother happy and providing for his family, boys are less motivated to do what it takes to achieve success, including continuing their education.
6. Women are nearly twice as likely to need sick leave from work, while men are much more likely to be workaholics. Because most areas of the work world outside the home are testosterone producing, women take home more stress, which can increase susceptibility to illness. Men are more vulnerable to overworking, especially if they don’t feel successful in their personal lives, because higher testosterone levels produced by longer working hours, in the short term, help them reduce stress.
🤔 Умозаключение - Захата явно се е доближил много до "женствената си страна". Орева половината Интернет, че ще се "самоубива", ама нищо не направи.
Norway, the most affluent and oil-rich country in the world per capita, is proud of being more gender equal than anywhere else in the world, but couples there also complain they have lost the passion. Divorce is common and more singles are not getting married. Men and women at work and at home are expected to play very similar roles and behave in a gender-blind fashion. It is considered culturally inappropriate to suggest that men and women are different, except in regard to obvious physical differences.
This sometimes makes the Mars/Venus ideas a challenge to present in Norway. When doing an interview there on national TV with the prime minister, we discussed the idea of cave time—that men, unlike women, needed time alone to regenerate their testosterone. He refused to admit that he took cave time or that men and women were different. He believed that was an outdated, sexist idea.
I pointed out to him that he walked his dog for twenty to thirty minutes at the end of every workday before he joined his wife and family for dinner. That was his cave time, and by taking it, he was unknowingly making the male anti-stress hormones, so that when he returned home he could be more relaxed and present for his family. The TV show cut that example from the program.
🤔 Умозаключение - Ламби е прав. Скандинавието си е "ебало мамата". Чудно дали ислямистите ги взимат в предвид тея детайли, когато ходят да exploit-ват "лабавите демократични общества"!?
Not only is believing men and women are the same false and bad for working relationships, it also makes our romantic relationships more difficult. In my experience teaching gender differences in Norway and Sweden over the past thirty years, the common belief that women and men are not different kills the passion in their relationships. Men and women become like roommates, with few romantic feelings.
Divorce rates in Norway (44 percent) and Sweden (47 percent) are among the highest in the world.
🤔 Умозаключение - ебасимо. Явно тея 2 народа (подобно на българския) са "свършили", но просто "още не знаят". Да живеят Скандинавските халифати.