Ей ся гледам едно интервю с Бъфет и по едно време се появи и Мънгър. На 98 години, ама си перка и си се хили като пич. 😃 Ще ми се да се пенсионирам като такъв пич.
Ич не ми е до парите - като ги гледам нашите пенсии, на по 70 години са "тоталка" (то младите на по 40 са пенсии вече), а тоя дедо е жив като старите българе, дето на 100+ години пият ракия по цел ден и "нищо им нема". Ей, дано доживея и аз да съм некъв жизнен пич на тея години. 🙂
Rabin
Създадено на 12.04.2022, видяно: 939 пъти. #62224
Кат не мърдаш от вас едва ли ще стигнеш тия години.
Ей тая нощ, сънувах че наемателят ми е подпалил апартамента и всичко беше много реалистично (макар, че сънувах че апартамента ми е на 1-ви етаж некъде до некъв пазар, а той е в една кооперацийка на 6-тия етаж реално; ама беше като истинско).
И ми стана тъпо, ама не реагирам емоционално и директно казах на тея около мене:
(1) Мама му дейба, тоя тъп наемател. Ок, значи - хубавото е, че кооперацията още стои, т.е. част от апартамента е ок.
(2) Викаме застрахователите да оценят щетите.
(3) Сменяме ключалката, кой го знае тоя боклук - сигурно е взел ключа и може да реши пак да ни направи мръсно.
(4) Ако ни се оправдава, че погрешка е запалил апартамента, или забравил нещо включено - правиме се, че го разбираме, докато го намерим къде се крие и го съдим до дупка.
(5) Проверяваме тоя дето му плаща - дали не се крие там.
(6) Викаме човек да оцени дали има структурни щети.
(7) Сметаме обзавеждането и тапетите, колко ще струва. Назад ще съм с няколко хиляди, но ще ги преживея и ще ми е урок.
После се събудих и като разбрах, че съм сънувал си помислих "Хм, апартаментът ми не е изгорял! Интересно!" (повече се бех изпотил, кога разбрах, че "брокерът ми е прав" и "цените на имотите ще се вдигат").
🤔 Умозаключение - дадох си сметка, че съм човек дето "кризите го държат жив". Затова и бих реагирал доста по "не-емоционално" на дадено нещо, а ще търся решение.
Постави ме в идеалната ситуация, дето мога да си клатя краката по цял ден, да съм щастлив и да си живея живота (примерно както съм в момента) и сам ще си измисля как да си усложня живота. Ей го - ся ще записвам магистратура дето ще ме държи ропче 3 години.
Мисля си, че аз, Захата и Рабина сме некви индивиди дето сами си причиняват мизерийката. И упорито я търсим! 😟
Нищо де - туй ме държи жив. Нормалният живот не е за мене!
Ама верно - некви приятели ми разправят как "искат да си имат детенце", "да си имат семейство с деца". А това за мен е последното нещо дето искам. 😖 Направо се разтрепервам като си го помисля. "Семейство с деца" ме доближава до мангалите - човек трябва да има неква по-висша цел в живота (дори тя да е "да експлоатира системата" - което пак ме доближава до "мангал" като се замисля... 🤔).
Ама нищо де - аз пиша статийки, баламосвам хората - уа. Това мангал не може да го прави (да пише статийки; да баламосва хора - може).
П.П. Щех да пиша, че "не може и да инвестира", ама се сетих, че Киро Японеца строи и продава имоти. 😒 Ех, трудно е да се раздалечиш от мангалите в наше време.
П.П.П. Ей дейба - сетих се, че Иван Костов е писал статии, доцент е, че и книги е писал. SHEEEEIT! И тва не е вариант...
Another case of symbiotic pathology involved a woman who interpreted her husband’s
jealousy as a sign of his love, manliness, and sexual attraction to her.
The trouble started
when he entered therapy to reduce his feelings of jealousy. He told the therapist that
when he became jealous, he became hypersexual with his wife to ensure that she
remained sexually satisfied. Only by keeping her sexually sated, he felt, could he prevent
her from seeking gratification elsewhere.
The wife denied any infidelity, despite her
husband’s suspicions. The therapist administered medication, which lessened the man’s
jealousy.
As his jealousy receded, however, his wife developed florid agitation, loose
associations, cognitive incoherence, and started to complain that her husband was “not a
proper man” and was “just like a little boy.”
As he got better, she got worse declaring
that her husband did not find her sexually interesting any more.
At this point in the therapy, the wife started to accuse him of having an affair with his
brother’s wife. She swore that she could detect erotic messages pass between them
through eye contact and body signals.
One morning, she felt “moisture on his penis, ” and
accused him of a clandestine encounter with his lover in the middle of the night while she
slept.
Eventually, she convinced him to stop taking his medication.
Shortly thereafter, his
jealousy began to flare again and he resumed his accusations of infidelity. Apart from his
jealousy, however, the therapist noticed no other symptoms or psychiatric problems.
On
follow-up, the marriage had returned to its original symbiotic state, with the husband
extremely jealous and the wife happy.
Thousands of miles away from the Yanomamö resides the Tiwi tribe, located on Melville
and Bathhurst Islands off the northern coast of Australia.
Because of their relative
isolation, the Tiwi tribe retained many of their customs at the time they were studied by
anthropologists. They are described as a gerontocracy, which means that the older men
tend to hold most of the power, while the young must wait their turn, sometimes for
decades.
The Tiwi are polygynous, with the powerful men taking as many as 29 wives,
many of whom are younger by decades. Young men remain mateless. According to Tiwi
law and custom, all women must be married, but the same obviously does not apply to
men.
Given this mating system, it is not surprising that young wives sometimes have sexual
affairs with the young men.
When discovered, the husband usually beats his wife and
then publicly accuses the young man of violation. Ritual requires that the accused young
man stand in the village center, surrounded by all the other men in the village, while the offended husband throws spears at him.
Being more athletic and agile, the young man can
sometimes dodge the spears to avoid injury. But if he does, the other old men, allies of
the offended husband, pick up spears and hurl them at the interloper.
The most effective strategy is to attempt to receive a nonlethal spear, say in the upper thigh, which will draw
a lot of blood, thereby assuaging the honor of the offended older man and preventing the
young man from being killed.
🤔 Умозаключение - А бе ние сме били "нормална държава". Ебаси откаченяците има по Света... 😨
synergie
Създадено на 17.04.2022, видяно: 778 пъти. #62426
The prevalence of infidelity has been extensively researched, but different studies
produce widely varying estimates.
Shere Hite put the rates as high as 70 percent, while
others such as Andrew Greeley asserted that only 5 to 10 percent of married people cheated.
There are several problems with determining precise rates. First, infidelity is
typically concealed and people are reluctant to talk about it.
In the classic Kinsey study
on sexuality, the interview questions about infidelity caused many participants to
withdraw from the study, and of those who remained, questions about infidelity were
often left unanswered.
My own estimate, averaged across studies, is that approximately 20 to 40 percent of
American women and 30 to 50 percent of American men have at least one affair over the
course of the marriage.
Even these figures, however, underestimate the likelihood that at
least one partner in the marriage will be unfaithful.
Anthony Thompson of Western
Australian Institute of Technology argues that the probability that either the husband or wife will have an affair (the affair rate for the couple) may be as high as 76 percent.
🤔 Умозаключение - ее верно Ребата добре е обаснил на Стюито. Нема любов - всеки се ебе със всеки. Просто хората си траят.
Чудя се как Кирчо освен 0% корупция, не обеща и 100% любов. Сигурно щото е педалче.
Clearly, both men and women have affairs, but the sex difference should not be hastily
dismissed.
I keep a file of news articles about sex scandals. Most involve married men,
often in positions of power, who use their status to attract sex partners other than their
wives. A recent example: “Fourth Woman Accuses ‘Guru’ of Sex. ”
A Hindu guru in
Houston is accused of convincing each of four women that “she must have sex with him to cleanse her womb of evil spirits. ”
He apparently told each not to mention these episodes to his wife, since she apparently got angry at the cleansing rituals.
Four women
so far have come forward to complain that he abused his position as a religious adviser to
manipulate them into having sex.
🤔 Умозаключение - 😆 Ее не моа! Манете ги IT гурутата - е туй е истински гуру.
More than 100 measures of personality were
examined, ranging from adventurousness to zaniness, but only three proved to be strong
predictors of susceptibility to infidelity.
The first was narcissism. People high on narcissism have a grandiose sense of selfimportance, often exaggerating their accomplishments or talents.
They expect to be
recognized by others as superior, and often get infuriated when such admiration is not
forthcoming.
Typically preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, status, or
brilliance, they believe that they are “special” and unique, and that the usual rules and
norms of social life do not apply to them. Narcissists require excessive admiration and go
to great lengths to evoke it from others, often in a socially charming manner.
A hallmark
of narcissism is a profound sense of entitlement.
Narcissistic people have unreasonable
expectations of favorable treatment, expect that others will automatically comply with
their expectations, and become furious when they don’t.
They take advantage of others, and although all people sometimes use others for their own ends, narcissists turn interpersonal exploitation into an art form. They make friends specifically for their
wealth, generosity, and connections, and especially for the ease with which they can be
exploited. Narcissists selectively choose those whom they can exploit, neglecting people
who are more skeptical of their grandiose claims of superiority and specialness.
Perhaps most central for infidelity, narcissists typically lack empathy for the pain and
suffering they cause others. The are so preoccupied with their own needs and desires,
they neglect to consider how their actions might hurt even those closest to them. Finally,
narcissists are frequently envious of others, resentful of those who might have more
success, power, or prestige.
Their envy may be linked to their fragile sense of self-esteem,
since narcissists oscillate between feelings of grandiosity and feelings that they are worthless.
Good behavioral markers of narcissism include showing off one’s body
(exhibitionistic), nominating oneself for a position of power (grandiose), taking the best
piece of food for oneself (self-centered), asking for a large favor without offering
repayment (sense of entitlement), laughing at a friend’s problems (lack of empathy), and
using friends for their wealth (interpersonally exploitative). All of these qualities seem
conducive to gaining gratification outside marriage.
🤔 Умозаключение - Разбрах какъв е "проблемът на българите"! Ние сме "нация-нарцисисти"!
1. Осцилираме между чувство, че сме "пълни нещастници и мангали", и чувство че сме "първите хора на света, траки и БГ на 3 океана"!
2. Използваме се един друг - всеки се чуди как да "преебе другарчето"!
3. Всеки се мисли за "специален", а "останалите българи" за "пълни тъпаци"!
4. Яко завистлив народ!
5. Яко изневяра навсекъде! Съответно и извънбрачни деца!
synergie
Създадено на 18.04.2022, видяно: 692 пъти. #62459
Aбе човек, ти ли отказа Рабина да влиза във форума?
Евлампи
Създадено на 18.04.2022, видяно: 672 пъти. #62465
The first was narcissism. People high on narcissism have a grandiose sense of selfimportance, often exaggerating their accomplishments or talents.
They expect to be
recognized by others as superior, and often get infuriated when such admiration is not
forthcoming.
Typically preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, status, or
brilliance, they believe that they are “special” and unique, and that the usual rules and
norms of social life do not apply to them. Narcissists require excessive admiration and go
to great lengths to evoke it from others, often in a socially charming manner.
A hallmark
of narcissism is a profound sense of entitlement.
Narcissistic people have unreasonable
expectations of favorable treatment, expect that others will automatically comply with
their expectations, and become furious when they don’t.
They take advantage of others, and although all people sometimes use others for their own ends, narcissists turn interpersonal exploitation into an art form. They make friends specifically for their
wealth, generosity, and connections, and especially for the ease with which they can be
exploited. Narcissists selectively choose those whom they can exploit, neglecting people
who are more skeptical of their grandiose claims of superiority and specialness.
Perhaps most central for infidelity, narcissists typically lack empathy for the pain and
suffering they cause others. The are so preoccupied with their own needs and desires,
they neglect to consider how their actions might hurt even those closest to them. Finally,
narcissists are frequently envious of others, resentful of those who might have more
success, power, or prestige.
Their envy may be linked to their fragile sense of self-esteem,
since narcissists oscillate between feelings of grandiosity and feelings that they are worthless.
Good behavioral markers of narcissism include showing off one’s body
(exhibitionistic), nominating oneself for a position of power (grandiose), taking the best
piece of food for oneself (self-centered), asking for a large favor without offering
repayment (sense of entitlement), laughing at a friend’s problems (lack of empathy), and
using friends for their wealth (interpersonally exploitative). All of these qualities seem
conducive to gaining gratification outside marriage.
Това са много думи за нещо което мое да се закове с една - умнокрасивец :)